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Posted: Sat Apr 23, 2005 1:03 pm Post subject: painfull sex
was wondering if anyone could help. my boyfriend an i have recently started sleeping together but i am finding sex really painful. the doctor has says there is nothing physically wrong with me, has anyone been in this position? if so how did u overcome it? any advice? thanx
my girl-friend had the same problem you see that he vigina was streching when we where having sex and it hurt her so afer a while her skin got used to my penis and fet normal. but if you start to bleed then go to a doctor!
Vaginas do NOT stretch. They relax when you're aroused, which makes them seem "looser", but they do NOT permanently stretch. The more likely problem here, nina, is that you're not aroused enough AND using lotsa lube. Lube is a wonderful thing, it makes it all that much easier. Don't be embarrassed by using lube, it's actually better as it reduces the chances of vaginal injury (from all that friction sex basically is!) and reduces the chances of condoms breaking.
Sex shouldn't make you bleed if you do it when aroused and lubed up sufficiently, but if you do, best thing to do would be to wait a few days to let it heal before having sex again, as chances are you've got a micro-tear in the vagina from not using enough lube or whatever. They heal by themselves. If it's still bleeding after a few days, or bleeding profusely, then go to a doctor, but most "bleeding-after-sex" incidents are this. Remember, vaginas can get friction burns too! _________________ I'd stop eating chocolate but I'm no quitter
Vaginas do NOT stretch. They relax when you're aroused, which makes them seem "looser", but they do NOT permanently stretch. The more likely problem here, nina, is that you're not aroused enough AND using lotsa lube. Lube is a wonderful thing, it makes it all that much easier. Don't be embarrassed by using lube, it's actually better as it reduces the chances of vaginal injury (from all that friction sex basically is!) and reduces the chances of condoms breaking.
Sex shouldn't make you bleed if you do it when aroused and lubed up sufficiently, but if you do, best thing to do would be to wait a few days to let it heal before having sex again, as chances are you've got a micro-tear in the vagina from not using enough lube or whatever. They heal by themselves. If it's still bleeding after a few days, or bleeding profusely, then go to a doctor, but most "bleeding-after-sex" incidents are this. Remember, vaginas can get friction burns too!
Amen,I would say insufficent foreplay,women vary depending on where they are in their cycle. _________________ "Ive got a feeling a feeling deep inside, oh yeah"-Paul Mcartney "the Beatles"
It's definitely insufficient lubrication. If your natural secretions of lubrication are not enough, or your timing is off, the friction of a penis in your vagina could be quite painful. In this case, using an extra lubricant, such as Aqualube, might help. _________________ The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it
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