Inability to Orasm...at All

[anita]

I've never had sex but I have done oral and fingering plus i've tried masturbating with my hands, in the bath, and with a vibrator. I can get to the point where my legs shake and my muscles contract but I feel like I "just can't get over that hill." one time I even squirted but that scared me. Has this ever happened to anyone else and is there something wrong with me or something that I can do?

[cherry]

At the sounds of things honey u aint abnoral at all an if u sqirted then u prob come I dont always orgasm at playing with my self need a helping hand from my man for that u will see a difference when u have intercourse if u are relaxed enought that is hope this is of help to u dont worry hun u sound norm to me

[bigjack]

It sounds like you probably had an orgasm...

It's become so built up as the ultimate destination in popular culture, that I think a lot of people have them, and just think they need to be bigger or flashier.

They come in all sizes, shapes, and flavors - big, small, whatever.

I say don't worry about the final destination and just enjoy the ride as much as you can

[pupper]

[Baranya]

I think that you had an orgasm, but a weak one.

[deedee37]

Hi Anita, I do hope that since you posted here that you have enjoed pleasurable orgasms. In my opinion being able to squirt is a bonus. I find the best way to ensure that the lady has an orgasm is to start slowly and give her plenty of foreplay... warm her up, make her pant, then the rest is easy....
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[Eddie]

I agree with deedee on this. Plenty of foreplay to warm her up and then take her to the finish line even if it takes a while.
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