Men, what do you like in a blowjob?

[cherry]

I enjoy giving BJ's,but what i would like to know is,why some men masterbate while your doing this? I always felt that it was my job and not his,to get him excited.It bothers me that he likes to stroke himself while I go down on him. Almost like I'm not doing a good enough job.

[James]

[jumpthemoon]

Ok, you are asking what we really like in a BJ.
For most men, their most memorable orgasim is more then likely, from getting head.

Suck as if you really like it. We can tell if it's a chore, and for me, I rather you didn't. Attack it like you are hungery for it. Like it is the very thing you need to keep you alive. Slobber the knob like its and ice cream cone, lick and kiss down the back side to the balls, and back. Then take it into you mouth in and out. Some guys like you to suck hard, for me, just a little vacuum is nice. Be creative, mix it up. My wife will sometimes put me all the way down her throat and just savagely suck me until I come, and then keep it there for several more minutes making sure to get every drop. What a turn on! Then another time she will mix it all up, and even and a hand to stroke me and then at the last minute pop me off with her hand on to her face, sometimes her chest, and just over her hands, and then she will lick it up. But she love it, makes it fun, and does it like it's an art. On time I was working on the house, and the came in, pushed my against the wall, dropped to her kness as she yanked my pants down, and took me into her mouth all the way, keep it there as I got hard (which was about 2 nanoseconds) and deepthroated me until I came, and then continue sucking me until I got hard again, and then she bent over a sawhorse so I could stick in her.

A blow job should never be a job that need to be done. It should never be a chore or obligatory. It is the passion that makes a BJ memorable.

[Pat]

Hey Chickee take his hand put it on your head so he can think he is pushing your head into his dick but resist because you can hurt yourself.
and when your sucking try to harden your tongue and curl it so that it rubs on the buttom side off his dick, and make sure that the curl is strong and suck tight.

Don't hold the dick when your sucking it do it freestyle. but jerk him off every 25 seconds to reload the dick because sometimes the dick chokes on the pleasure.

Other then the feeling of that suck guys cum because they think stuff in there head like how you are their dick sucking bitch, so act like that. Say that you love his dick and that he is your daddy and shit like that.

Don't suck it while he is standing up or laying down. Let him sit on a chair and let him crunch over you. and let him hold your head while doing that.

it would also be really cool if you let him use his legs and do a fucking motion to your mouth. Like his using his hips to push the dick into your mouth.

And moun and act like its giving you an orgasm, and sometimes do some weird stuff like kissing his dick or licking it or rubbing it all over your face.

[Captain_Jack]

For me I must see, no question on that one, if you need to hide from my view then we shouldn't be having sex cause she would be too inhibited for me.
Next would be to change up the regularity of your sucking, if you don't change the rhythm the pleasurable friction gets redundant that is why for me some intermittent stroking or light massaging of the balls helps greatly.

As far as licking other areas, sure go for it, but, you don't want to just start licking his ass cause if he went to the bathroom that day no matter how clean we think we are I still wouldn't want her to lick that area unless I was right out of the shower or hadn't used the facilities yet that day.

And if you want to try fingering him I wouldn't just surprise him with it, while you are sucking his cock you could rub his asshole first to get him used to you messing with that area plus rubbing it would help lube the area with the saliva you are producing from the blow job. Your finger should slide in real easy, and if you keep your nails long be careful that could hurt. Also after you are in we are not like women we don't need hard thrusting, some guys may like this after they are used to the idea but at first just having it in there, if he isn't used to it, should produce enough sensations to get the job done. Some light in and out is fine too just don't get crazy until you can judge his reaction to the experience.

[pupper]

My wife inserts one finger in my ass with plenty of lube,she then rubs my prostate,much the same as I do her g-spot.I also have an aneros for prostate stimulation.She changes up her technique, which drives me crazy.It doe's take a while for me to cum, but the prostate stimulation brings it on faster,and gives me an incredible orgasm.
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[deedee37]

I agree with pupper, a little prostrate play during the BJ makes me harder and I CUM like crazy with more cum shooting out than normal... sitting so that you can feel her boobs is a favourite and also when she slides her tongue in and over my pee hole... I also love vocal ladies, those that moan and groan as they suck....
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[cherry]

I do to my bf what deedee has described in his post - he cums more intensely and can't get enough of me afterwards
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[deedee37]

Cherry, you must make your bf go crazy, I know I do when my wife does me like that. Are you also vocal while you do it? My wife moans and groans which is an even bigger turn on.
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