dunno were this goes i think maybe here...

[kona]

anyways i have a question for all the girls on here (or if your a guy and u want to say something go ahead..) anyways i have a birthmark on my the lower base of my penis(always have) .. i was wondering would i remove it ... (my girlfriend doesn't no about it cause we've yet to have sexual intercourse) and I'm only 14 and i know if i were to get it removed its gonna hurt like a sun of a BAD ! word ... I'm asking the girls what they think i should do remove it..... keep it ..or ask my girlfriend for her opinion.. my mom is a nurse and we discuss things about sex cause she and i and a lot of other people in my family don't want me to "mess up" and if i do remove it she could help me at the local hospital and set me up so i wouldn't be to em barest (its a small town..) anyways girls let me know what u think ..

[kona]

maybe i should think abought putting this in the "general ishues" spot

[nelle24]

Hi,

don't worry about putting your post here, it's perfectly okay.

In my opinion, you shouldn't think about removing your birthmark. Is it in the way? Does it cause any pain? If both answers are no, then I don't see any reasons to remove it. It's a part of your body, something uniquely yours and you should take it as such.

[jumpthemoon]

Kona..

You can just be proud that you have something that is very special to you!
I read somewhere that if a birthmark starts to grow or change color, you should have it checked out. So keep this in mind, but apart from this don't worry about it... heck, be proud of it!
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