Pain during penetration

[Daisy]

Hey girls i was just wondering if you experience any pain during anal sex and if the amount of pain depends on the position, how wet and horny you are or something else possibly. Do you always use a lube? We used it at first but have now stopped. When he penetrates i almost always feel a twinge of pain and if it disappears depends mainly on me and if i can relax my muscles. Sometimes he has to stop right away as the pain is unbearable. But if i'm in the right mood then the sex can be fantastic. Btw, can a girl cum during anal sex??

[noamii]

I felt pain almost everytime when we started with anal sex. But now we've been doing it for a few years regulary and the pain is almost gone. I feel some discomfort as he penetrates, but that's it. I'm not sure about achieving orgasm during anal sex. I've never had one
if you are a beginner at this you should definitely use a lube. Apply it on the penis as well.

[deedee37]

Daisy, the best introduction to anal sex is if your guy uses plenty of lubrication... first let him lub your rose bud and his finger... you must relax and let him put his finger in and move it around and in and out. Once it is enjoyable and not sore, let him try two fingers, or use a thin dildo. Try this for a few times and once you are comfortable with it, the let him lub his penis and penertrate you. See how it goes, but try and relax and enjoy it. Good Luck!!!!!
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[nelle24]

Last time we had anal sex my bf penetrated really quickly, without me being prepared and the pain was excruciating... Then he did it slowly, making sure I was wet and then the sex was great, I almost achieved an orgasm (almost, cause I always need finger stimulation).
So be sure to use lubricant and penetrate for the first time very slowly!
Otherwise it's a turn off!
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[backdoorguy]

I've been enjoying anal sex for well over 20 years, it's my preference sexually. The key to pleasure is lubrication and relaxation, plus plenty of practise. I've never caused a woman any real discomfort during anal intercourse, I'd say that it's a case of communicating & respecting that if penetration is uncomfortable then you need to stop.
Anal orgasms certainly ARE possible, and apparently different from vaginal orgasms. My partner achieves orgasm far more easily thru anal sex, though she needs deep & wide penetration, & vigourous thrusting to get there. In fact, being averagely endowed wasn't providing sufficient stimulation, so we were using a large dildo, but that lacked the enjoyment gained through proper sexual coupling, so after some searching I discovered this item http://www.maxhim.co.uk/acatalog/QRealisticSO9.html which has proved a total success. There's probably some stigma attached to using a hollow strap-on, but it pleases my gf & that's what matters. Also, as it stretches her anus it does make strap-on-less penetration feel enjoyably different.