sex and vagina problems!!

[Brunette]

i have two problems. my first problem is when me and my boyfriend r having sex i can feel him hitting something inside of me. it feels like a ball or something. its not big but it can sometimes be painful. we have been having sex for over 4 months now and it hasnt gone away. anyone know what im talking about? my second problem is me and my boyfriend have just stopped using condoms and everytime he comes and takes himself out of me my vaginal opening burns as if it is irritated. is that normal? i freak my self out all the time....SOMEONE HELP ME!!

[vetta]

What he's hitting is probably your cervix. When a woman becomes sexually arouse, the cervix usually moves back and out of the way so it won't be hit, but it still can be and it does usually cause pain if it's hit.
If the pain is really bad, however, I suggest you stop with sex for awhile and go to your gynocologist, pain during sex inside your vagina can often indicate a problem such as an ovarian cyst (which hurt like the dickens, let me tell you). You probably don't have anything to worry about since what you're describing does sound like the cervix, but just keep in mind that it never hurts to ask a doctor.

Often times different positions can move your and his body enough to keep him from bumping your cervix.

The pain you feel around the opening could very possibly be irritation from the act of sex itself if you aren't lubricated enough. If you only feel the pain right after sex and it isn't something that is with you constantly, this is probably what it is. You can usually solve this problem by investing in some water based lubricants, which can be found at almost any convenience store.

If the pain lasts longer than that, however, it's also something to get checked out.

But from what you've described it sounds like two pretty normal things a lot of women experience, so don't stress out too much.