Affectionate sex

[Upas]

What positions would you advise to have emotionally warm and affectionate sex?

[nelle24]

Some women don’t like to be “on top” because they feel the man gets to be too lazy and only has to lay back and watch the show. You can remedy this by having the man sit up against pillows so that it’s far easier to kiss and the woman can feel more engaged with the man. The woman really does need to set the pace with this position since she’s the one with the greatest range of motion possible. If she needs greater clitoral stimulation than this position normally gives her she should arch forward and do more of a grinding motion that thrusting so that her clitoris will be rubbing up against the man pubic bone. If she needs even more stimulation she should be brave and use her own fingers to stimulate herself while finding a rhythm that works for you both. The man can add even greater stimulation by caressing the sensitive undersides of her buttocks, or stroking her back door (make sure she’s well lubricated) or even inserting a finger into her anus (but ask permission first).

The key to successful “doggy style” intercourse is communication. Just as the head of a man’s penis is the most sensitive, the first third of a woman’s vagina is the most sensitive and the “G-spot” isn’t down deep at the back, it’s on the front wall about a third of the way down (though it varies woman to woman) so you need to communicate with your lover to find the right thrust that works for her.

Also, the “G-spot” often needs a lot of stimulation before it “wakes up” so you need to either go down on a woman first orally and make sure she’s either had an orgasm already, or is pretty darn close, or you need to reach your hand around and give her plenty of clitoral stimulation at the same time to make sure she’s enjoying things the way you are.

The problem man and women have with “doggy style” is that it feels very impersonal. To make her feel more connected try a couple variations on the theme such as rear entry while you’re both on your knees, or standing, in front of a mirror so that there’s plenty of eye contact and you both get the visual stimulation of seeing exactly what’s going on.
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[vetta]

Raised Bottom: The woman lays back and clasps her legs around the man's torso while he penetrates her. The man can grasp the woman's sides to lift her up to change the angle and depth of penetration.

Squatting: The woman has a great deal of control in this position. The position does not allow the man to thrust easily. The man can caress the woman's back and buttocks. A woman who has strong leg muscles can move herself up and down on his penis, but not likely for extended periods of time.

Parallel Bodies: Both partners kneel, preferably on a soft surface facing one another. The woman opens her thighs and slides forward to sit on her partners lap. This position is low on genital contact but great for kissing and intimate contact of the upper body.

Arched Back: This position allows for eye contact, or just for you to observe your partner while you play. The man can thrust deeply in this position. The woman arches her body up, offering her vagina up for penetration. He can rock her up and down against him. This is a highly erotic position, most easily achieved by a supple and flexible woman.

Supported Kneeling: This is a difficult position to maintain for extended periods of time. It is a good transitional position when you are going from standing or kneeling positions to a man on top position. The man should face the woman directly and insert his penis, once that is done he can draw her up onto his body. The woman can use her arm for support and to push up against her partner. The man supports most of his partners weight with his arms and knees. (grasp under her buttocks)

Upright Kneeling: The man kneels and pulls the woman forward onto his penis. The woman places her feet flat on the ground, then she is able to rock her pelvis up and down. The man can hold her around the waist to guide the movements..

Chair Support: Kneeling positions can be made more comfortable by using a chair or couch for support. Make sure the piece of furniture that you choose is not too high. The woman sits on the edge with her legs clasped around his waist. An alternative to this position is to have the woman lie back on a table and the man penetrates her from a standing position.

Raised Legs: The woman rests one or both legs against his chest and shoulders with her partner grasping her thighs. The tighter the woman's thighs are squeezed together the tighter the grip on her partner's penis. The man should alternate light, shallow strokes with deep, penetrating ones.

Woman on Top

Advantages to the Woman on Top Positions

* Allows the man a more passive role.
* The woman can control the speed and depth of penetration.
* The woman can also choose the type of movement ie; rocking back and forth, circular, thrusting up and down.
* The man can usually last longer in these positions.
* There is more clitoral stimulation in these position so it is possible to reach orgasm during intercourse.

[Upas]

O, thanks! I'll use it!

[chuke]

[mannu]

ok thanks,

when i will sex than all the things will be in my mind.

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