Oral Sex With a Condom - Yes or No?

[nina]

I see that a lot of people are pondering whether to spit or swallow during oral sex. The whole thing kind of grosses me out. Is it OK to do the deed with a condom present? Is it less pleasurable for the guy?

[Brunette]

Hey there,

I've tried it with my ex and I have to say that it's far far worse than without a condom. Well, he did come eventually but the sensations just aren't the same.. Imagine someone was touching you with a rubber glove on - there's no pristine contact and most of all, there's a big lack of saliva! You'll know what I mean if you've tried sex without condoms - it's kinda hard to put it back on once you've tried without, isn't it?!
It's not gross.. You'll get used to the flavor. Besides, when you get absorbed in his pleasure, moaning... You don't even taste it. Getting down on him is a MUST.

Take care and enjoy

[nelle24]

It may feel just great to some guys, while others will say they can't feel very much at all. One way to find out for sure is to ask.

The most important feelings here, however, are yours. If the idea and/or reality of tasting, spitting, and/or swallowing ejaculate, or oral sex in general, makes your stomach turn, then how enjoyable can giving oral sex to your partner's point of no return really be for you? Condoms are a reliable option for keeping your partner's semen out of your mouth, not to mention the protection they give against the passing of sexually transmitted infections, such as gonorrhea and herpes. Still keeping your partner's penis on the back burner for a minute, how will a condom -- dry, flavored, or otherwise -- go over with your taste buds? Like a guy's preferences regarding rubberized fellatio, some women and men don't mind the taste of a condom, while others would rather suck on a dirty sponge. If you can get your hands on a condom, the answer to this one is easy: slip that baby over your three middle fingers and do a taste test.

Now back to your concerns about tasting and swallowing semen. Know that giving oral sex and receiving your partner's ejaculate don't have to come as a package deal. For example, a man can pull out prior to climax, or he can notify his partner when he's about to come so that s/he can stand clear.

Talking about feelings, options, and what one will and won't do sexually -- BEFORE you find yourself doing it -- can cut worries about what you might be asked to do in the heat of the moment. The good news is that if something doesn't feel right to you now, or in the future, you don't have to do it.
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[deedee37]

Nelle 24 has said it all.... now as a mature male I would like to add that a condom reduces the feelings and I think that pulling out before the climax is a better option if the lady is against the taste of semen.

Now remember if he returns the favour, he has no option but to taste and swallow the juices from the lady.
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